Orgasm is the height of the sexual activity. Each partner desires to attain orgasm whenever they engage in sex. Although it is not the only pleasure derived from sexual activity, orgasm is a very important part of the game. Without it, some people feel wasted after having sex. However, you should not go around blaming your partner for the occurrence. That’s because reaching orgasm is a responsibility for both partners.
To achieve orgasm, both partners should guide each other on how to act during sex based on how their bodies respond to intercourse. Here are tips to help you and your partner experience amazing orgasm whenever you have sex.
Understand what Puts Your Body in Motion
If you don’t know what stimulates you, it will be harder for your partner to find a way to trigger pleasurable sensations. Therefore, start with self discovery. You can do this with simple things like masturbation, lubricating the vagina, and using your fingers to play with the nipples and other sensitive areas. You can also read sexy materials and fantasize about things that stimulate your body to discover what really works for you.
Take Time to Engage in Foreplay
When it comes to orgasm, women are wired differently from men. In fact, most men are fired up and ready to roll within minutes. Women on the other hand, have to prepare themselves for sex mentally and physically. It is therefore crucial that create the mood as you edge closer to the time for having sex. You can wear sexy lingerie, start fantasizing on what is to come, or start flirty conversations. Try things that put both of you in the right mood for sex.
Focus on the Clitoris
While there are many parts of a woman’s body that can trigger orgasm, clitoris is the main area that you should put a lot of emphasis on. Whether you choose to touch, lick or rub your penis on her clitoris, never be distracted from it. Do it persistently and she will eventually reach orgasm as long as you do it right.
Orgasm is a sensation that you have to build up as you engage in sex. Be an active participant and enjoy the ride all the way without slipping back. On average, it can take a woman about twenty to forty minutes to experience orgasm although it can sometimes take longer. Regardless of how long it takes, remain focused and keep riding her till she gets to the peak.
Try these tips and you won’t have trouble reaching orgasm with your partner.